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I
just finished listening to this amazing book that I somehow missed a few years
ago. It is Waiting For Normal by
Leslie Connor. Here is a young eleven,
then twelve year old whose stepfather and mother recently divorced. Because
the mother left her at age nine to care for the two younger sisters, the stepfather
has gained custody of them, while leaving Addie behind to cope with her
mother. Sound complicated? It is.
And sometimes these are the circumstances that children must face, or
worse. They, like the main character
Addie, are looking for normal!
At
the beginning of the book, Addie and her mother, whom she calls Mommers, move
into an old trailer in a remote spot near a mini-mart type of store. This appears to be all the ex-stepfather can
afford as he still is paying some money to the ex-wife. The mother is furious, but Addie is shown to
be a person who looks at the bright side.
She loves the private ‘bedroom’ she has above the living area, with
curtains! There were times I wondered how she manages in the face of her difficult
circumstances. Throughout the story,
Addie’s mother leaves her alone for days at a time. Luckily
Addie befriends the curious group across the road that runs the mini-mart and
gains support from them while continuing her own resilient ways.
It’s
a long book that includes numerous twists and turns (a
term Addie uses for her own family’s life) that make one ache with despair for
this early adolescent.
Her life
includes:
-A
change to a new school
-Cooking
toast dinners, with enthusiasm
-A
grumpy grandfather who has washed his hands of his daughter, Addie’s mother,
and unable to be much help
-A
wonderful character who owns the mini-mart named Sula, who takes the role of
offering the kindness that Addie needs so desperately
-A
loving ex-stepfather whose hands are tied by the courts, trying to help Addie
as much as he is able
-Two
sweet little sisters who add some happiness to Addie’s life
-A
weaving in and out of Addie’s challenges in school and the additional gift she has of listening to music and being able to re-create
it in her flute playing, all because of dyslexia.
-A
couple of school friends who are supportive as much as they can be
-A
hamster named Piccolo that adds the warmth of companionship Addie needs
When
I listened to the book, it was frustrating to hear Addie grow herself, hearing
her thoughts of despair and hope, aching myself for this young child to have
something go right for once in her young life.
I began to think of all the other characters I’ve met just this year
who’ve endured their challenges, needing help from adults and peers in their
lives, and sometimes not getting that help for a long while. Sometimes these
children hide their needs very well, to protect loved ones and the often-tenuous
hold they have on their lives. It is a
challenge for teachers and others who work with children to watch carefully for
signs of need, and take action as vigorously as possible. In the
recent books, I think of Augie in Wonder, Marlee in The Lions of
Little Rock, Fern in See You At Harry’s, Hazel and Augustus in The
Fault In Our Stars, and Conor in A Monster Calls. And
now I will be reminded of Addie in Waiting for Normal. Thanks to marvelous writers, these poignant
characters serve to remind us of the real characters in our lives,
perhaps classrooms, which need our advocacy.
More
than once, I sat parked, listening to yet another chapter before leaving my
car. A woman named Angela Rogers
narrated the book with such talent, I continued to ‘hear’ the voices each time
I arrived at my destination and had to turn the cd off. If you can listen to the audio version of the
book, do so.
In 2009, the book was named one of School Library Journal's Best
Books, an ALA Notable Children's Book, and ALA Top Ten Books for Young Adults,
is on Texas Lone Star Reading List, and won the 2009 Connecticut Book Award.